Some Updates on June 2010

I just read my friend's blog and realized how long I've been blogging without using 'WE' as a subject in all of my sentences as if 'I' is the only word I am comfortable to begin my story with or I lack of confidence whether the ideas can be really generalized, accepted by most people or perhaps I've been living myself alone (though not lonely :p) that I don't have many stories to tell as a unity of more than a person, or put it simple I feel no rights to say something on behalf of others without asking their permission.

We just came back from a holiday. I just reunited temporarily with a friend that I hadn't met for almost two years, the one I used to live with under the same roof separated by a wall only that I always kicked every time I wanted to call her but to lazy to get my butt off the bed and go to knock her door. Vietnam is much more beautiful that what's seen in the picture. Despite the sudden injured leg before going there, we had a great time in planning and executing :). And when it's over, we just moved on and proceeded with our own lives. Till we all meet again.. And it's not too long for some of us as we're going to attend our friend's wedding.... about two weeks later. Hmm.

As for the broken hearted friend, she just asked me to write down the famous phases those broken hearted would probably go through, ones we long time had invented.
This is for you :
1. Critical phase. It's the first phase. The most critical time is ONLY the first three days. With the sun shining all the world and beautiful flower blossoming and the blue and bright sky, we can only see one image in our sight : our spouse. We will miss him terribly and wonder whether he/she has forgotten about us.
2. Trying-to-survive phase. No message, no calls, no meeting-ups and we are getting used to it. Sometimes the image is still there, but it's not too often anymore. This phase can last for 2-3 weeks.
3. Thinking-that-of-course-I-can-survive phase. We can finally see the warmth of the sun, the beauty of the flowers, and how awesome is the feeling when the we look up to the sky. We're closer to understand that there are many bigger things than our problem is and we're getting nearer to live our lives as per normal. This phase can last months.
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10. A-happy-ending-phase. Whether we end up being together with the same person or another person instead, we are in the state of happiness. God works in a mysterious-beautiful way.

So my friend, if you ever wonder what phases come in between, when you've tried the best, re-assure yourself that you will be certainly being in the final state no matter what processes you will pass through, things you may see, and people you are going to meet. Simply, you just need to take your time.

A good day ahead all, nevertheless!